Hello!
I can’t believe I’ve lived in this beautiful,
challenging place for a year now. It does feel like “home” to us. We’ve come a
long way, literally and figuratively. I
thought that I’d list some of the highlights and milestones of our life in the
last year.
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| Our first home here. |
- We arrived at 11:30 at night. My very first impression was that it was windy and hot.
- I learned pretty quickly how much my visa status affects my civil liberties. No bank account for me!
- We explored a little of the western cape and saw penguins, baboons, eland, tortoises, eagles and many other animals.
- We learned how to drive on the left side of the road, manual transmission. Not that hard, really.
- We learned how to use Rand instead of Dollars- I still have to do a conversion in my head every time. Here is the conversions list I developed.
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| Our second home here. |
- I’ve learned that I have too much stuff. Too many books.
- I’ve made my peace with washing dishes, but the bathroom and floors are my dreaded enemies.
- We learned how to ride Segways.
- Our dogs have made life bearable, even on the toughest days.
- We’ve become better cooks.
- We eat out less.
- We are healthier and value exercise and fresh foods.
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| Beautiful wine farms. |
- We learned how hard it is to keep in touch with even the people you are closest to. Sometimes, it is “out of sight, out of mind.”
- I’ve learned a new skill- Beadweaving.
- I’ve learned a new way to move- belly dance.
- We have both developed our skills of patience.
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| Beautiful beaches. |
- We are learning how to communicate better. When you only have each other…you need to be open and honest about your needs and goals.
- We’ve learned that friendships can come in all shapes, ages, and abilities.
- Living here has helped us clarify our priorities in life.
- We celebrated one year of marriage, and are over half way towards our second year! After eight years, he’s still my best friend and light of my life.
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| Scenic vistas. |
This list could go on and on. But I’ll spare you.
Our new theme for the year is “to make this year
better than the last.” It shouldn’t be that hard, now that we have a year “under
our belts.” We are more confident here and are learning how to navigate the Rainbow Nation. What a challenge and privilege we have gotten to live
through.
We are ever grateful for the life we have together.
So in celebration of our one year Cape Town-aversary,
AND this being my 100th post, I am having a giveaway!
Really Easy Rules of the Giveaway:
All are welcome! Friends, family, followers,
or potential followers, worldwide!
Here’s what you do:
· Please leave a comment
for me, saying what are your top 4-5 favorite colors, and I’ll make you a custom
pair of earrings!
· If you don’t have a
blogger profile, make sure you leave an e-mail address so that I can reach you
if you are the winner! (If you’re worried about spamming, you can write your
e-mail address to look like this: “withoutcomplexities at gmail dot com.”)
· For extra
ballots: become a follower through Google Friend Connect (it you aren’t
already) of Lovely Light, Google Plus me, and/or follow me on Facebook and let me know in a
comment here (a separate comment for each one).
· This means that you
have up 4 chances (via three comments) towards winning a
beautiful handmade pair of earrings! I will use a random number generator to
pick the winner.
· If you are the winner
and do have a blog, I’d love it if you gave me a little “shout out” and picture
on your blog. No expectations though!
· The giveaway will be
open for two weeks, closing on Friday, March 2nd. I'll announce the winner a few days after.
Good Luck!
Song of the Post: The Weight by The Band. This is hands-down, one of my all-time favorite
songs.







Wow! your first year. I love reading your list of all the things you did this year! So many things are put in a different perspective when you live over seas. I think it's a wonder learning experience! We Americans are spoiled people. I have really enjoyed reading your blog even though I don't always comment.
ReplyDeleteI would like various shades of white and cream. Beautiful earrings!
ReplyDeleteI follow via GFC!
ReplyDeleteWhat a fun 'looking back' post! Congratulations on the milestones. =)
ReplyDeleteFavorite colors... orange, purple/amethyst, light blues. Such a variety. ;-)
Thanks for the chance to win such beautiful earrings!
I follow you through GFC. =)
ReplyDeleteThis is such a lovely post, other than the first photo none of the others are showing.
ReplyDeleteWhat a wonderful of growing and reflection, hope the next year is wonderful for you both!
Lots to Celebrate! :) And thats what life is about isn't it? Celebrating things with the people you love!
ReplyDeleteMy top favorite colors are teal, purple, white and black. (I wear alot of black) But if I won I'd love whatever you make!
I follow you via GFC
ReplyDeleteI really really wish I lived in CT so we could go for coffees! I will be there in April though, we are definitely meeting up!!!
ReplyDeleteIm so glad that you have had a good first year, even if it has been tough :)
My top 4 colours are black, grey, white and red :)
my email is gina at jacobson dot co dot za ;)
Here is to having a totally fantastic amazing and super 2nd year!
Wow. Beautiful photos for sure :)
ReplyDeleteMy fav colors are light pink, sky blue, lime green (that matches a nice bright pink)
Thanks for the cool giveaway!!
OH and I'm following gfc :)
ReplyDeleteWhat a beautiful review of your first year in Cape Town. You've done so much and learnt so many things. That's a year well spent :) Now as for this giveaway ;)
ReplyDeleteMy top 4-5 colours....Marigold, Green, Navy (I can only think of three) If I win I'll leave this to your creative eye!
ReplyDeleteI follow you on GFC :)
ReplyDeleteI follow you on FB :)
ReplyDeleteYay! Your first giveaway! My colors would be red, black, teal, white, and grey.
ReplyDeleteI follow via GFC.
ReplyDeleteWe're pals on Facebook.
ReplyDeleteI'm also following you on Google Plus.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations on your first year in Cape Town and your 100th post. Love the pics of the houses you have lived in, they look pretty. The earings are beautiful! My favorite colors are: turquoise, black, red, purple and white. A toast to the start of your second year!!
ReplyDeleteIt looks lovely there! My favorite colors are amber, purple, blue, and red.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations!! One year is a
ReplyDeleteGREAT accomplishment!! Thanks for leaving comments on my blog, it is fun to get a different perspective of another culture! I look forward to reading more of your blog! Happy 1 year anniversary!! (It only gets better and easier, i promise!)
Oh yeah, sorry, also, the earrings are gorgeous!! Im impressed! You'll have to do a tutorial one day!!
ReplyDeleteMy favorite colors are red, pink, orange, cobalt blue, black.
ReplyDeletejhbalvin at gmail dot com
I just became your 200th GFC follower! Hurray!! Isn't that fun when you reach a milestone. Congrats on your blog. Maybe number 200 will turn out lucky for me.
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Christina - xristya@rock.com - Such lovely earrings, hope I win (I love red and yellow and turquoise and black!). Congratulations on your 100th post (quite a milestone!) and on your Capetown one-year anniversary!
ReplyDeleteI like Dark Purple, Lime Green, Royal Blue, Neon Pink :D
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I follow you on GFC (same name)
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My favorite colours (even though I hardly ever wear them, think I need to change that) red, purple, violet, silver, blue
ReplyDeleteHow about 5 shades of ocean blues and greens! Thanks for the giveaway.
ReplyDeleteMy favorite color is black, but I also like blue, red and purple. If I win I'd like the earrings made out of black beads and with silver hooks! :D
ReplyDeleteMy e-mail: blackasphodel(at)yahoo(dot)com
I follow you via GFC as Black Asphodel
ReplyDeleteI follow you on Google+ as Black Asphodel
ReplyDeleteI liked you on Facebook as Black Asphodel
ReplyDeleteGorgeous! My favorite color is "Rainbow" hehe. I think all colors are beautiful!
ReplyDeleteThat being said, I wear lots of reds and greens!
sblake1[at]student[dot]framingham[dot]edu
I'm a GFC follower!
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following on G+
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I'm a fb fan!
ReplyDeletesblake1[at]student[dot]framingham[dot]edu
Wow congratulations to you!
ReplyDeleteSome of my favorite colors... pinks, purples, blues and greens!
i love deep earthy colors! Oranges, reds, browns!
ReplyDeleteOr black and creams!
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Following you through GFC!
ReplyDeleteJara Christensen
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Liked you n Facebook!
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those are beautiful! i love creams/whites/yellows
ReplyDeletejmmccarr@gmail.com
the earrings are gorgeous!!!
ReplyDeleteI love the brown one the best.
I am also your newest follower..pls follow back if you can.
I love creams/ white/ blue/ teal :)
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